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Thursday, April 19, 2012

Hours To Go ...

So ...
Today was my last day of undergraduate classes.
Ever.
I have one day of finals on Tuesday and ... That's it.
As of May 1, 2012, I will have my B.A. in Communications with an emphasis in Journalism.
Last of the To-Do List:

  • a lit review for my Theories & Principals of Human Communications (due the 17th)
  • a film paper (due the 17th)
  • Pop Culture Assessment Paper (dues the 18th)
  • my portion of a wikipedia entry (dues the 20th)
  • 20 listening blog entries (due the 20th)
  • a final test on the History of Rock & Roll (due by 5 p.m. the 20th)
  • a paper for my Women in the Media class (due the 23rd) 
On-going projects until we make our official move: 
  • Pack and pack some more
  • Find a job
  • Laundry
  • Wash dishes
  • Feed, clothe, house & keep healthy two amazing children
So ... If you're hiring, message me - I am definitely looking for a j-o-b!

Best, all!
BJM

Saturday, April 7, 2012

Easter Weekend Already

I can't believe that it has literally been 40 days since I last blogged.
I either owe my readers an apology or ... I hate to think of the alternative!
For now, I just wanted to do a quick update:
I have 4 (yes, FOUR) days remaining as an undergraduate student (I only attend classes on Tues/Thurs). Uh, yes. My finals all fall on one day (April 24) ... of course, between now and then I have:
  • a Pop Culture Assessment Paper (dues the 13th)
  • a lit review for my Theories & Principals of Human Communications (due the 17th)
  • a film paper (due the 17th)
  • my portion of a wikipedia entry (dues the 20th)
  • 20 listening blog entries (due the 20th)
  • a final test on the History of Rock & Roll (due by 5 p.m. the 20th)
  • a paper for my Women in the Media class (due the 23rd) 
On-going projects until we make our official move: 
  • Pack and pack some more
  • Find a job
  • Laundry
  • Wash dishes
  • Feed, clothe, house & keep healthy two amazing children
Things I have checked off my list of Things To Do: 
  • Order my class ring (and it should be here by May 11th)
  • Purchase my cap & gown. 
  • Give $20.12 for Senior Gift
  • We have found a place to live, put down the deposit and signed the lease. 
  • Find a place to live
It's been a super busy 40 days 10 weeks with another 7 to go ... But graduation is just around the corner (May 1) ... and once school is out, we will be making our move official. And boy oh boy, it will be nice to have the four of us under one roof!

Thanks, y'all, for your prayers, your kind words & thoughts, your support ... I will continue to update the blog as time allows ... thanks for your patience!

BJM

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Ash Wednesday

I have never given up anything during the Lenten season. But this year, I am.
Well, I'm trying.
This year I am giving up meats and sweets.
For forty days.
I hope.
You see, it's 6:30 p.m. on Day One of my Forty Day Lenten Fast, and already I find myself bargaining to get to the next meal.
"Here you go ... some almonds until lunch time."
"Here you go ... some fruit to tide you over til supper time."
When of course all I really want is the Double Stuff Oreos that are on sale at Ingles.
I am hopeful that some local seasonal fruits or veggies will be available before Easter, but probably not.
So if you have vegetarian recipes you want to share, please do ... I am not giving up dairy, so feel free to share those recipes, too.

In other news ...
  • School is going well for all at our house.
    • Our 8-year old is on track for the 3rd 9-weeks Principal's Honor Roll (all A's) and our 4-year old loves preschool more than chocolate (which is a tremendous accomplishment for preschools everywhere).
    • I am doing well and can hardly believe May 1st is just 9 1/2 weeks away - Wow! I really need to buckle down on my application for Grad School, as it's due 3/15 (yikes!). 
  • We need to re-home two pets. We are re-locating and have 4 pets (two dogs, two cats). Since we are going to be renting for a while we have run into an issue with that number of pets. So, we are looking for a new home for: 
    •  Jedi (20-month old male orange tabby cat who has been fixed and is in excellent health). Jedi is a rescue kitty who is the opposite of every stereotype about cats - he is incredibly affectionate and loves to play and snuggle. 
    • And for Lucky, a rescue dog who has been with us since Thanksgiving of 2005. We think that he is about 7 years old. He weighs about 45 pounds and prefers women to men. He is also in great health. If you or someone you know might be interested, please comment with your e-mail and I will happily tell you more. We will be asking for veterinary references for any home that either of our pets go to - they are very loved, but we have to be reasonable about where we can live. 

Ummm ... that's all, for now.

Happy Ash Wednesday!

Monday, February 13, 2012

Valentine's What?

Just sitting here, the day before Valentine's Day, watching my recently-turned-four-year-old address and sign her own Disney Princess Valentine cards, that's all.
Wow.
A week ago, she could only write her name ... this week, she wrote her brother's name, her cousin's name, her grandparent's names and "Daddy" ... Um, I dunno about you, but where I come from, that's almost as awesome as say ... a Grammy.
And speaking of Grammy's ...


Did you watch? 
I did. 
I watched because I wanted to see the performances but also because I actually know two artists who were nominated. Um, yeah - I'm awesome like that.
Peter Cooper was nominated for Best Children's Album for his album I Love: Tom T. Hall's Songs of Fox Hollow. Peter didn't win, but that's o.k.  - he's got lots more music to make and I'm excited for him. I am also looking forward to taking my children to hear and see him perform live in our hometown this March.
Laura Story was nominated for Best Contemporary Christian Song for her song, Blessings. I met Laura for the first time when I was in high school and she was a student at the University of South Carolina and part of the band Siler's Bald. Although we grew up in the same town, we don't really know each other, but we've met at several functions and I was excited to see a hometown girl win.
“It was wonderful to see a fellow Spartan, Laura Story, win a Grammy,” Peter Cooper told the Spartanburg Herald-Journal's Dan after the afternoon ceremony. “My award came when (Grammy-winning Country Music Hall of Fame member) Emmylou Harris told me she voted for me.”
Highlights of televised portion of the Grammy's (at least for me) were:
  • Hearing Alicia Keys & Bonnie Raitt pay tribute to Etta James, singing her Sunday Kind of Love; 
  • the Glen Campbell Tribute (so, so amazing to see how gracefully he is handling an Alzheimer's diagnosis) - The Band Perry, Blake Shelton and the Rhinestone Cowboy himself took part and it was beautiful; 
  • Taylor Swift's performance of her awesome song, Mean (click on the link and scroll down to watch) ... Just have to say that I love this song and if you're wondering, the entire album is just as strong musically and lyrically; 
  • Foo Fighters winning Best Rock Album. 'Cause seriously, they were the only rock band nominated and they recorded the album in their garage!; 
  • A new band ... the Civil Wars. Oh. My.
  • And of course, Adele. I'm not really sure that there are words to describe her amazing voice and if it's that amazing from the television, I can't imagine seeing and hearing her live!
Alrighty then. That's all for now, y'all. Go listen to some amazing music and Happy St. Valentine's Day!

Thursday, February 2, 2012

Just Sayin'

My last day of undergraduate classes: April 24 (a day full of exams).
That's 11 weeks.
Or 22 days, since I only have classes on Tuesdays & Thursdays.
264 HOURS of class time.
Um. Wow.
Last week my Grad School folder came. No, not the one that says "accepted" (although that one will be so much more awesome!)  - the one that gives all the details for what I must do for admittance:
  • GRE Score
  • 2 Professional Letters of Reference
  • 3.0 GPA
I am a little anxious about applying (Deadline is March 15), but it's still what I want to do.
Master's of Library & Information Sciences.
I'm already dreaming of literacy programs & books clubs; of ordering new books & putting them out for my students to read; for helping with research & pointing kids toward books they'll love & bringing in authors & holding writing seminars.
I'm actually getting giddy just typing this.
So ... 22 days of this preparation for the next thing.
And there will be a next thing.

Saturday, January 21, 2012

GOP Primary Time In S.C.

So it looks like the win, though votes are still be tallied, goes to Newt Gingrich in today's S.C. primary.

While I can say that I did not vote for Gingrich, I won't say who I did cast a vote for, as a nod to my parents.

"What? Why?" You might be asking.

Well ... here's why.

When I was a girl growing up in my parents home, I would ask things like, "Who did you vote for, Daddy?" and my Daddy would say, "That's private."

As a (very, very nosy) little girl, I did not understand this response. But today, in the world of facebook, twitter and other methods of instant gratification - I do.

I enjoy talking politics - mostly. I enjoy offering my opinion. I enjoy fact-checking. (I prefer factcheck.org, if you're interested).  

But I don't enjoy the pure anger and hatred that politics bring out in (some) people when you disagree with them, or offer a differing point of view from theirs (mine).

So I won't be saying who I voted for, but I will say that I voted for him (No, I did not vote Michelle Bachman, despite her name - along with John Huntsman, Rick Perry and Hermain Cain - remaining on the ballot) knowing that he most likely would not win. But I voted knowing that on major issues, I agree with the person that I voted for and on some issues, I could live with his stand.

So, there. It's no BBQ post, but that's politics in South Carolina.

Let's hope it's not a reflection of the National party's stand.

(Ooops - sorry - that was a bit opinionated after all).

Ok ... I was going to stop there, but let me say this - just in case someone out there reads this and cares.

What we (I) need in a politician is this: 
Someone who is honest.

Someone who doesn't pretend to be perfect. You've screwed up? Big deal. So have I. As my 9th grade Geography teacher would have said: Fido. Forget it and drive on. Just tell me - honestly - that you're going to try to do better.

Don't tell me you're going to do something you're not. For example, if you're Mitt Romney, don't tell me that you're going to repeal ObamaCare - you're not. It's modeled on YOUR healthcare program in Massachusetts. Say you support public health care options and remind us that you've helped set up a program that (seems to, at least) work. Tell me you know how to tweak the healthcare bill to make it better for Americans who want healthcare and can't afford it at its current cost.

Is there someone out there who wants to run for office who DID NOT get his (or her) first job because of connections? Family, Fraternity/Sorority? I'm all for  networking, but c'mon - I know that there are qualified people out there who did not get their first jobs because Mom or Dad made a call, or because they were in a Frat with so-and-so's brother. Some people have become successful through hard work, through trial and error, by making mistakes and learning from them - where are you?? Three words: Run For Office. (Note: I also admit that some people have done well - in the public and/or private sector with the benefit of their "connections" - I'm just ready for a something different!)
I have several friends who have run for local office, several who have been elected. These (for the most part - haha) are great people who love their families and their community and want to make decisions that will help set the stage for their children to have opportunities and to see their communities thrive - there must be people like them out there who want to make a run for a national office - c'mon, don't be afraid!

 Ok. That's my soapbox. I'm getting down now.

Oh! Last thing: To those of you who have voted - either today or previous weeks - thank you.

Seriously, even if you voted for the wrong guy (or girl), you did your job.

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Here's What You Get ...


I love barbeque.
Seriously.
At Thanksgiving with my Dad's family, we always had Prosser's BBQ which my aunt picked up in Hemingway.
When we go to the beach, my first stop after unloading the car, is Prosser's BBQ in Murrell's Inlet.
I also enjoy politics. Somewhat.
So it was with great enjoyment that I read this article today which merged the two.
Personally, I'm a girl who loves the vinegar and salt bbq of the low-country, but I also like the mustard-based bbq of the midlands. And in the Upstate, I love Bull Hawg's.
So, now you have my recommendations and maybe I've piqued your curiosity about my politics. I will be voting in the S.C. GOP Primary, but I've not decided yet for whom ... is the bbq map any kind of indicator? Hmmmm ...